Shakyamuni Buddha himself said: we must all treat our life, our so called family life, whatever, as an experience of, ?? means like basically hotel. It is like a hotel. In a big hotel, people check in, and people check out, you understand. This is how it is. Our life is like that. New friends check in, old friends check out. You understand. And this is such an amazing teaching because this is how our life is. If you can think that this is the beauty of temporariness. Temporary stuff is so nice. It is very blissful and it is beautiful. When things are stagnant and forever, it stinks.